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Ex boyfriend dating someone new quotes

Whilst it’s unfair to generalise, some men are very much ‘out of sight, out of mind’ and because some won’t shed tears, hide at home and bury their heads in tubs of icecream, they will propel themselves back into the dating pool and ‘get on with things’ rather than dwell on the emotional fallout from the breakup.

Instead of thinking ‘Oh sh*t, the bastard can’t have cared that much if he can get over me so quickly!

’ remind yourself that if he has truly dashed out too soon, it will probably end up with a negative result.

Whatever it is that governs their choice, you’re unlikely to know what that is, and you really don’t need to.

You should be focusing on yourself and your own future rather than worrying about his.

A little bit of bruised ego is natural but if you become consumed by his new relationship or exploits, it may be time to ask whether you’re really over him, and if you are; what is it about your own life that makes this news so unbearable.

Often you’ll find that the reason it bothers you is because you have taken his actions as some sort of reflection on you and the past you shared together.

If you have had the chance to lick your wounds, heal, learn and move on, you stand a better chance of happiness.

But the reality is that it’s probably not going to happen like that and it’s a littttttle bit childish.

Does it really matter which one of you starts dating first and does it that he’s dating?

The next thing that happens after you break up with someone – this is after the tears, the drama, the denial, the anger, the acceptance, maybe a sneaky shag, more anger, more acceptance and then closure – is moving on.

In an ideal world, you’d be the one to get in first and have a new man to throw all of your energies into, and if you admit it deep down, you probably wouldn’t mind your ex hearing about how happy you are.